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Don't Be THAT Friend: Know What NOT To Say Because It's NOT Okay!

IMAGINE YOURSELF IN THE FOLLOWING SCENARIOS: You: I'm allergic to bee stings.
Friend: It's all in your head.
You: I'm blind. Friend: Just start seeing. Problem solved.
You: I'm deaf. Friend: All you have to do is choose not to be deaf. 
You: I'm diabetic. Friend: Just stop eating sweets. It's not that hard.
You: I was born without arms. Friend: You could grow some if you really wanted to.

You: I have a nut allergy. Friend: That's not a real thing. It's all made up to sell drugs.
You: I've got asthma. Friend: You're just saying that because it's "trendy".
You: I have migraines. Friend: Just stop watching the news.
You: I've got cancer. Friend: Just stop thinking about it and it will go away.

I ask you, are any of those replies okay?
Is that how you would respond to a friend's physical disability or illness? 
Are any of those replies kind?--compassionate?--helpful?

I hope you answered, "No! Of course not!"
Now, imagine this scenario:
You: …

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